Do they know deep inside which direction they are going?
Many do not. But it is unimportant. No matter what game he is or isn't playing, it doesn't change what you should be doing.
Originally Posted by Navarro
I get the feeling that he knows which direction he is going but he chooses not to tell me. I’ve often wondered if he’s not telling me because he wants me to wait here I til he is fully over me then he will cut me loose in the end.
I'll repeat: "No matter what game he is or isn't playing, it doesn't change what you should be doing."
Originally Posted by Navarro
Another part of me feels like there’s no way he would waste so much energy with 300 texts a day if there wasn’t genuine effort? Some days I don’t even think about that stuff and other it replays in my head. Today is one of those days….
Navarro, you are looking for logic in your sitch to put importance on things. You cannot use logic with WASs in general, and especially WSs!! They are the most illogical creatures on planet Earth. His 300 texts a day might be genuine. Or it might be to get you to wait here until he is fully over you and then he will cut you loose.
The good news?
I repeat: No matter what game he is or isn't playing, it doesn't change what you should be doing.
Navarro, the emotional roller-coaster is a real thing that LBSs go through. That is what you are experiencing. But no matter what his intent is or isn't, you still focus on yourself, focus off of him. GAL as much as humanly possible. Keep becoming the person only a fool would leave (180s, self-improvements), and continue to work on being emotionally detached. He'll either want to R at some point, or he will continue to walkaway, you have no control over that. But DBing gives you the best chance.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
