What Galís have I been doing? Well I mentioned that my kids are very active teenagers and their not yet driving age. They both do all sporting activities year round and they do them at a highly competitive level. We practice at minimum 4 nights a week until after 10pm and then most weekends are spent with their sporting events. We do most weekends as a family with all four of us together. My main priority in life right now is focused on them and I have them about 98 percent of the time. When they are in school I do get out and have lunch with friends, shop, go to the spa, and I have went on a few girls weekend trips. I donít have a lot of extra down time to do ďmeĒ time things but I am ok with that. I think he prefers it this way so he knows Iím not doing anything else to. I donít think too much into that these days though. I use to want him to think I really had something else going and wonder where I was but Iím so far past that these days! Maybe he would find me more attractive if he thought I was out all hours of the night at the bar but Iím past trying to pretend Iím doing something that Iím not. I do the same things I did when he was here living with me and that is try to make our kids life as much fun and productive as possible.