Originally Posted by Navarro
My first thread!...I feel like Ive been apart of this group for almost two years. Im a lurker! ...this forum has helped in my journey tremendously and I am beyond grateful...... I am very confused on where my spouses stage actually is and I need guidance.....


Glad you posted. You like most of us start out by looking at our spouse and trying to determine if progress is being made. I strongly suggest that you shift your measuring stick to evaluating yourself. How you behave. How you interact. How you communicate. Are you making positive changes in those areas. Things like that.


This is a save your marriage website, so I assume your goal is to reattract your H.


You didn't mention kids. Do you have any? if so, ages? Current parenting arrangements?

What about you and H age? How long married?


"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
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