You are welcome, LH. I find you to be a voice of reason in this forum and feel many have benefited from you. While I don't always agree with your opinion/advice I find it to be constructive and aligned with MWD's core tenets.
I don't think anyone should agree with everything I say on these boards. I give thought to each specific sitch. Is the LBS strong enough yet to pull this off. Can I in good conscience give him/her advice to get his/her WAS back? What was I thinking and feeling early on? What do I now know that I wish I knew then.
Originally Posted by MLCxH
Incidentally, I had not heard of the Chump Lady prior to this and I checked out her page online. It is easy to poke holes and criticize others but difficult to do something constructive. MWD's work on DB/DR has helped so many people whether it is to save their relationships or heal from the breakup. I did not take time to read the Chump Lady's page fully but at a quick glance I don't think your advice is aligned with her thoughts and I am sorry your advice on this board was compared to that.
I appreciate it. I have not check her out yet and not sure I ever will. I have certainly has worse things said to me on this board.
Originally Posted by may22
Peace, guys. I don't need more @holes in my life and so I'm out. Not worth it. Hope you guys find happiness.
Originally Posted by MLCxH
Talk about irony, since I find what you are doing here to be aligned with LH's advice regarding moving on when it is not worth continuing to having some people in our lives
May is feisty and got caught up in something she is passionate about. It happens to me all the time. Hence we are all works in progress.
