LH, I wasn't trying to be rude by saying you should head over to the chump lady's board. I think she is fabulous. The reason I say that is her philosophy aligns very closely with yours and you'll be with your people there, rather than continuing to trash the core tenets of the founder of this website. .
This is a very ignorant statement on your part that Pi$$es me off because I don't agree Detach, 180 and GAL is the right move for Mako.