So Steve just to clarify you are advising to go along with no suggestion of IC or MC and then at some point to just drop the D papers on her if nothing has changed?
Action, not words.
(And no, I am not advocating MC UNTIL she makes it clear that she is ready to work on the marriage through action....not words.)
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018