Originally Posted by mako
Then this morning I cuddled with her in bed, which is something I had been doing lately, and she said Im not ready for cuddling this makes me uncomfortable.
How many times have you been cuddling with her recently? How many of those times were initiated by her?

During this phase, you want her to be pursuing you. You do not initiate. You behave as an attractive male. Get those core behaviors figured out and then live them. Drop beta behavior. You know you are behaving correctly when she desires you.

This is a huge onion you need to peel. There are many layers that need to be removed.


"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
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