To recap: W said she wanted a D just over 2 months ago, which wasnt a surprise after the past few years. Ive been here before and knew what to do, took steps to improve myself, and went a long way in finding detachment. Ws attitude didn't change, we agreed to the terms of D, and were probably under a month from being ready to file, I came to acceptance that its coming. W gets COVID, has a change of heart, and wants to work on the M. As of this post it is going ok but were really only around a week into the process so Im pretty much just going a day at a time, moving slowly.

First thread:

Me: 43 W: 41
Together 2009, Married 2011
Sons 10 and 6, Daughter 5
Bomb 2/21/21. W moved out 10/2021