Itís definitely BoTH my behavior and how I think.

Not sure about the persuading, need to think about that one. But definitely her being there had an impact and initially it was the whole MOAFWL that drove me.
I have however keep up with most habits during the weeks she wasnít at home.
Living completely alone is another story though.
I have an eye on myself laugh.
Thanks for checking Sandi!

Me: 34
Stbxw: 30
D:5 D:3
Mini bd: May/June 2019
Married: Aug 2019
BD: 6th Dec 2019
OM Confirmed: Feb 2020
March 2020: I filed for D
Waiting for D to be finalized and W to move out end of January 2021