I like a clean house, I like looking good etc but habits are habits and a lot comes down to inner beliefs/assumptions about reality and those arenít easily changed.
IHS period has helped me keep the new habits. Living alone is something different.

Me: 34
Stbxw: 30
D:5 D:3
Mini bd: May/June 2019
Married: Aug 2019
BD: 6th Dec 2019
OM Confirmed: Feb 2020
March 2020: I filed for D
Waiting for D to be finalized and W to move out end of January 2021