Typing on phone.
On Saturday me and XW went through all assets in the whole house together. (Kids at my brothers)
It was the last and final step to her moving out.
It went well, faster than I thought and I got more things but will prob need to pay a small sum to her.
It was tough for both of us but I managed to focus except once when I started to cry a bit (went through old photos and a pic of daughters together in the house two years ago got me) and I just left for a while.
Drank some water, took three deep breaths and got back to it.
She cried like 5 times. Real tears.

Interesting quotes:
W - “I don’t think we realized what we had”
I said, No we didn’t.

W - “They should tell ppl when applying for divorce to try to split all assets.”
I paused for a while and said, Yeah they should.
Didn’t really initiate or ask anything except when she was crying. Everything else was business.

On Saturday she is moving, I will take the kids to my sisters that day and on Sunday they will be moving as well.
They will spend all of next week at her new apt.
The only thing I’m really hoping for is that she wait with inviting OM till kids get accustomed.
I can tell on D6 she is a bit nervous.


Me: 34
Stbxw: 30
D:5 D:3
Mini bd: May/June 2019
Married: Aug 2019
BD: 6th Dec 2019
OM Confirmed: Feb 2020
March 2020: I filed for D
Waiting for D to be finalized and W to move out end of January 2021