Thanks for the support and input Steve and LH! Yeah it isnt easy to just accept it but I brush it off quickly in 95% of cases. Tomorrow is our "going though everything in the house"-day and in a week she is finally moving.
You suggestion is very good LH, it hints that I actually have feeling but they are not ready to be shared. I have been thinking an honest "I'm not sure. I dont know him".
Me: 34 Stbxw: 30 D:5 D:3 Mini bd: May/June 2019 Married: Aug 2019 BD: 6th Dec 2019 OM Confirmed: Feb 2020 March 2020: I filed for D Waiting for D to be finalized and W to move out end of January 2021