AFTER BD X bought me goats for my birthday. X wanted my input on plans for the new barn. I helped. X came over with fruit trees and asked where I wanted them planted. I told him. X sent me flowers for bday, valentine's day and anniversary. X constantly talked about what "we" were going to do with this calf, or that cow etc. etc.
I don't know if it was 'future faking', his break in reality, or what, but it drove me nucking futs!!
I had to get to the point where I said "There is no WE in divorce" but it took me 2 1/2 years. (Really.) And I never had the guts to say it to his face. I just sat there listening and hmmm...cool...wow...but inside, reminded myself that he wasn't planning a future with me. His actions said that. His words meant nothing.
Don't be like me. Good job on ignoring that email.
Just live your life and you will do great! I can be jealous of your intestinal fortitude from over here. LOL
Also - don't minimize your feelings. It's can be confusing and crazy-making if you allow it. Great that you know it "doesn't mean anything" - it means something, but the only one who knows what it means is your W - and she might not even know!!
*"I once had an uncle. We called him Uncle Bear. We called him that because sometimes he would eat one of us." -My fave Jack Handy
ME47 XH44, S28 S24 S19
8/17-BD IHS: 1/17-2/19 D FILED (ME): 7/19 D FINAL: 10/20 M23 T25 OW CONFIRMED: 01/21
Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid.