Thanks gigi and LH!!
Yes they are so much smarter and stronger (thankfully) than one thinks.
We must support them no matter what!
My kids believe it is a joint thing. “we fell out of love”. Eventually they will find out it was moms decision.
I have however told them I wish it didn’t have to be this way and that I will miss them greatly.
To be clear I tone those things down A LOT though, to be certain they don’t blame themselves in any way.

Last edited by Mumin; 01/06/21 11:13 PM.

Me: 34
Stbxw: 30
D:5 D:3
Mini bd: May/June 2019
Married: Aug 2019
BD: 6th Dec 2019
OM Confirmed: Feb 2020
March 2020: I filed for D
Waiting for D to be finalized and W to move out end of January 2021