Hey Mumin, I feel your pain my friend, the thought of someone else is your kids lives truly [censored]. I am just at the beginning of this looking like a thing too. Who would want someone in their children’s lives who holds the values of a home wrecker.

But you know what Mumin, as you alluded to, the best revenge is to just be the absolute best dad possible. Kids aren’t stupid, they will know what’s what.

Me: 39 W:40
T: 14 M: 11
S: 4
BD1: IHS Nov 2019
OM since Jun 2020
W moves out Aug 2020

"What happened happened, and couldn't have happened any other way...because it didn't"