Thanks for all the good advice, LH Steve Gigi, much appreciated! I ended up not saying anything at all.
Just came home after a few days with my parents and New Years with my brother. Apparently XW and D3 went and met OM today. I left the room as soon as I heard and later told W I donít want to talk to her right now. Iím furious atm. Will go for a walk. Talk to her tonight.
Me: 34 Stbxw: 30 D:5 D:3 Mini bd: May/June 2019 Married: Aug 2019 BD: 6th Dec 2019 OM Confirmed: Feb 2020 March 2020: I filed for D Waiting for D to be finalized and W to move out end of January 2021