LH - I read your post and i wondered is “keep moving forward” the best way to preserve myself or is that the best way to get my wife to comeback, or both?

She sent me a text yesterday to let me know her house has a flea infestation. She didn’t ask for anything. I just text her back “That stinks.”

Later in the day I text her that i was going snowboarding tomorrow and said if the kids wanted to go i would take them. She asked them and my son wants to go, so I’m picking him up in an hour. That’s going to make today a great day.