LH - I read your post and i wondered is keep moving forward the best way to preserve myself or is that the best way to get my wife to comeback, or both?

She sent me a text yesterday to let me know her house has a flea infestation. She didnt ask for anything. I just text her back That stinks.

Later in the day I text her that i was going snowboarding tomorrow and said if the kids wanted to go i would take them. She asked them and my son wants to go, so Im picking him up in an hour. Thats going to make today a great day.