Originally Posted by LH19
What does stop detaching mean to you? I think you may be confused to what detachment means.

Stopping communication beyond necessary family needs? Maybe I'm confusing it with going dark.
Originally Posted by LH19
This seems like manipulation on your part.
Probably was in some ways, but the books were 100% worth it.
Originally Posted by LH19
My suggestion would be just to move to option 2. If she brings up working on the marriage you can discuss it at that time.
That's a good idea. Hadn't thought of that. Thank you!