Originally Posted by ScottB

Its confusing. Ive given her every thing over the years. She stayed at home and could do anything she wanted, I dont understand where this anger comes from.


I would be very careful treading this ground. In your view she was very lucky to be staying at home, but in her view she might have felt trapped and caged. Do not assume stuff, assumption is the mother of all fcukups.

Originally Posted by ScottB

Steve - Ive read it a good bit, but Ill reread it. I just cant understand doing this to your own kids. I just cant understand. I cant get myself into a mindset where I would inflict this much emotional confusion and pain on my kids. I just cant understand.


In her view she probably sees that she broke the shakles and started to breathe. She very probably feels that it time for her happines and that she sacrified herself for the happiness of the family. You can't say that she is wrong, because IMO she genuinely feels that.