Thanks folks.

So the appraiser came through our home today and my wife came over to make sure there wasnt any funny business (Im keeping the house and have to by her out so she wants the price high as possible).

We walked through noting all the improvements and when we were done I mentioned some structural concerns that she had pointed out for years. When I brought that up she shot me a gaze that said she wanted me dead. I simply dont understand her anger. I havent done anything, this is all her. It doesnt make sense at all, its ridiculous.

Its confusing. Ive given her every thing over the years. She stayed at home and could do anything she wanted, I dont understand where this anger comes from.