So here's my perspective. He's not acting like a dick he is a dick. I don't think May should reconcile with him because I think he's going to walk again down the line, because he really doesn't have the motivation to work with her to change anything, their relationship will keep seeking the same equilibrium it has had because of how their personalities and issues come together. My point is I think he is trying the best he can and that's not good enough. So at some point he will quit trying. It's nearly impossible to reconcile with someone who is not extremely remorseful.

M:51 W:46
T:22 M:16
S:15 D:11

“Don't chase people. Be yourself, do your own thing and work hard. The right people - the ones who really belong in your life - will come to you and stay.”- Will Smith