Originally Posted by Steve
I dont know what to do now. My son has been lashing out at her, and at OM.

Simplenothing. Its her job to manage her sons behavior during her custody period.

Originally Posted by Steve
He says he tried to make me and mom fight so we talk. He told me that he thinks OM is using mom to babysit kids

Listen and validate your son.

Originally Posted by Steve
]She blamed all this on me.

She free to blame anyone she wantsyou, the president, or unicorns. Your point?

Originally Posted by Steve
She told me Im never coming back to you and she told my son that too. It crushed him.

Listen and validate your son. This is how she feels today. Tomorrow she may feel differently, but remember shes a lying cheater, so hopefully by then you wont take her back.

Originally Posted by Steve
I have never once said anything bad or wrong to my son.

Great! Your point?

Originally Posted by Steve
I never told him to go over there and do this and now she is blaming me.

OIC! This was a dream that you control her actions. You dont. Shes free to do whatever she likes regardless of what you wish her to do. You control you. She controls her.

Originally Posted by Steve
I tried to talk to her, explain he is just upset, she wont listen. She blames me

Oof! Dont pass go, dont collect $200. You are supposed to be NC. This is a bid to control her. Drop the bids to control her. Thats best whether you want Reconciliation or A Good Future Free of Her.


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