Originally Posted by LH19
So M is this NGS or are you just trying to do the honorable thing? There’s a big difference.

I guess this is the question I have been asking myself really.
Thanks for the input everyone! Always insightful and I really appreciate it.
Since I want the same outcome no matter, it doesnt really matter if she gets it Monday or now.
So I have decided to tell her on Monday when she is back.
That way not avoiding it and not trying to control, and it does feels like the right thing to do.
Give it to her rather than just put it in her pile of mail.


Me: 34
Stbxw: 30
D:5 D:3
Mini bd: May/June 2019
Married: Aug 2019
BD: 6th Dec 2019
OM Confirmed: Feb 2020
March 2020: I filed for D
Waiting for D to be finalized and W to move out end of January 2021