So today was a good day. Kicking butt at work, being a great nurse, tons of people that love and support me.

Had my sister in law call. She said hey I know it’s hard but I want you to know I talked to WW other day. Dude she is miserable, everything OM promised is BS. He makes her work for everything, he makes her pay her own bills, she lied and said he pays for this and that but he doesnt. His W is giving him full custody of his 2 older kids and now my sister has to watch 4 kids 24/7. She is so unhappy and depressed. She said she still loves you but hesitated to say she loves him. She kept your pic that you sent her of the weight loss. She saved it. It was in her camera roll. She is staying with him because he keeps telling her that “he wouldn’t have divorced unless it was for her” she is not happy, she will leave him soon or be miserable forever. She told me I’m a great man and and good dad. Told me that her sister is considering not speaking to me cause it makes her think about me too much.

So at this point distancing myself is a good thing. Sure it doesn’t mean that she won’t get stuck with OM but that isn’t my problem. I’ve been doing great at work, my kids constantly ask to be with me, and I’m looking great. The only thing I need to really work on is to detach. It’s hard seeing her in this pain but it’s her choice.

Signed up for classes to get into the emergency room for fun and new experiences. Things are going good actually. I don’t feel like a total loss anymore. It’s nice

Last edited by Steve_; 12/06/20 05:35 AM.

K: D5, S7
BD: 9/1/20
WW continues to break up and recon with OM.
I paid last fees and pushed the D 5/3/2021
Default Dissolution granted 8/5/21.
Glad my D was not busted.