I think its not time to be nice or to try anymore.

How many times have you said this already? Youre a broken record.

Im going to be tough. She contacted me. I played into her hands. Now I feel [censored]. Im definitely done. Im going to be tough, thatll get her back!

Rinse and repeat, round and round we go.

I give up on you Steve. Until you go and see a professional for some serious, high intensity counselling, you will keep doing what youve always done.

Sorry to be blunt.