Regarding the holidays I would have had to work one of them regardless, being a nurse and so on. And with OMs family coming down and all I just decided to do something with the kids before hand or after just them and I. I cant deal with seeing that yet but Ill do something for the kids for sure.

She did ask me why I didnt face time her today at like 708pm each day I put the kids on the phone (only the kids) at 7 sharp. I was on the phone with my bank to replace my debit card I have a picture of us on our wedding day everyone loves it and comments and so I wanted to make it a regular one without our photo. I just said on the phone with the bank when she called. I started to type out why I was and realized ..thats an R talk, no no no. Not doing that. Just left it at on the phone with bank Ill have em call you shortly it wasnt a big step but I did resist the urge to have an R talk. Im a little proud of that usually I would jump at that. After how badly I embarrassed myself yesterday I learned better. Got a whole day of smart contact down. Its just a baby step but finally in the right direction.

Last edited by Steve_; 11/25/20 03:37 AM.

K: D5, S7
BD: 9/1/20
WW continues to break up and recon with OM.
I paid last fees and pushed the D 5/3/2021
Default Dissolution granted 8/5/21.
Glad my D was not busted.