Regarding the holidays I would have had to work one of them regardless, being a nurse and so on. And with OM’s family coming down and all I just decided to do something with the kids before hand or after just them and I. I can’t deal with seeing that yet but I’ll do something for the kids for sure.
She did ask me why I didn’t face time her today at like 708pm each day I put the kids on the phone (only the kids) at 7 sharp. I was on the phone with my bank to replace my debit card I have a picture of us on our wedding day everyone loves it and comments and so I wanted to make it a regular one without our photo. I just said “on the phone with the bank” when she called. I started to type out why I was and realized ..that’s an R talk, no no no. Not doing that. Just left it at “on the phone with bank I’ll have em call you shortly” it wasn’t a big step but I did resist the urge to have an R talk. I’m a little proud of that usually I would jump at that. After how badly I embarrassed myself yesterday I learned better. Got a whole day of smart contact down. It’s just a baby step but finally in the right direction.
Last edited by Steve_; 11/25/2003:37 AM.
T:11 M:10 K: D5, S7 BD: 9/1/20 WW continues to break up and recon with OM. I paid last fees and pushed the D 5/3/2021 Default Dissolution granted 8/5/21. Glad my D was not busted.
