Interesting wolf. It makes sense to me now. You always say tell me what to do, guys instead of can I have some guidance on making a decision

I recall from your earlier postings you used to place a lot of blame. Lots of blame on everyone, including the ex. It reminds me of my ex where he would leave decisions in my hands and responsibility in my hands so when something went wrong, he wouldnt have to take responsibility. Because he did t make the choice or decision or because it wasnt his job. He could place all the blame on me.

I see how you do that yourself. Its ok for something to not go the way you hoped as long as you give it your best shot, and take responsibility for it when everything goes wrong. And taking responsibility isnt just Im wrong, I messed up its taking from what you learned I. That situation and dealing with it