FYI, I just read your story, not completely yet, only this last thread and I'm a bit shaken up. So strange to read this. BD was the same month as mine, the things you mentioned in your recap part, so recognizable.
Think this is the story most comparable to mine currently.
Will soon make more time to read your entire story.
Me (44) EXH (43) M:15 T:18, S18, S15 & S15 04/19 - 02/20 ILYB & OW1 12/20 - 08/22 OW2 03/22 - Divorce official/home sold/I let go 07/22 - New home/New life but Good life! 06/22 - Slowly reconnecting