Wow MrB thanks for a GREAT post! I will read it again and really consider all recent advice.
Tbh I have been a bit ambivalent lately as to whether I would ever take her back. Long demands lists aside I am not sure I can get the loving respect back. I still have love for her though, but I am not sure its the right kind of love and I am sure that love will diminish over time.
Also, at the moment I am so much about exploring and developing myself. My brother asked me when I am getting Tinder. I said I dont want it right now.
Me: 34 Stbxw: 30 D:5 D:3 Mini bd: May/June 2019 Married: Aug 2019 BD: 6th Dec 2019 OM Confirmed: Feb 2020 March 2020: I filed for D Waiting for D to be finalized and W to move out end of January 2021