Great posts here. Have you considered getting a shared apartment? You could seperate physically all of the time or part of the time. You wouldn’t move the wardrobe and you wouldn’t tell the kids. “Traveling for work” or whatever
Me: 34 Stbxw: 30 D:5 D:3 Mini bd: May/June 2019 Married: Aug 2019 BD: 6th Dec 2019 OM Confirmed: Feb 2020 March 2020: I filed for D Waiting for D to be finalized and W to move out end of January 2021