Well heres what I would do. Theres absolutely zero chance I would marry this girl right now. I would have a talk with her and let her know that things arent working and you need to make some changes together and outline what all those changes look like. If she brings up marriage tell her you are not ready right now. If she trys to blackmail you then you give her a timeline to find her own place. You speak to a lawyer about custody arrangements and monetary support.

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