Also true. Thanks Ben!

More messages...
"we can talk more tomorrow if you want... bla bla..."
"However I look at it I beleive this apartment is an important step in the long-term, for all of us"
"So I will buy it bla bla bla"
"OR what do you think?"
a few minutes later
"I dont know what you are thinking or if you want to say. But I prefer to hear what you are thinking"

She is basically asking me if she should buy the apartment.

Me: 34
Stbxw: 30
D:5 D:3
Mini bd: May/June 2019
Married: Aug 2019
BD: 6th Dec 2019
OM Confirmed: Feb 2020
March 2020: I filed for D
Waiting for D to be finalized and W to move out end of January 2021