Brought a load of boxes home from the storage unit yesterday and went through them with CMM today. Its emotional for him (killed me to see him throwing out old cards from his daughters but hes adamant in his stance that he wont contact them and doesnt want me to contact them after his death. I think hes so hurt by their rejection that hes just pushed them away; this might have to do with unresolved trauma around his own parents sudden deaths when he was a teen.) Still he managed to throw out a bunch of crap and make a few boxes to donate. A couple more days like this and we will have it emptied out. The boxes he will have left will fit into my garage.