Good grief. So much to think about in this regard post D. For me, if exh has really re-married (i'm not convinced they aren't just living together, he has her and two step sons. Where does that leave my son?
So, like you I am working out what to do for him on my end.
File under more places I never thought I'd be, but you know, it's ok.
M 20+ T25+ S 15.5 (BD) BD 4/6/15 H moved out 4/24/15 D Final 12/23/16