May, I feel the focus on you throughout this post, and it makes me really happy. Maybe seeing a middle path clearly isnít necessary, because youíre creating it as you go, step by step. It is all of these moments youíre prioritizing your own work and healing with IC and through self care (sleep in, root for your home team!), while letting your H have some space to also do the necessary work on himself. You canít soothe him the way he might have relied on you to in the pastóthis is his work. You sound more than ever like you know that to your core. ((May))

T: 16 M:10
BD 6/2019