Don is absolutely correct! What she said was about her, not you. Many people donít like the thought of dating again after a certain age but to stay with someone she doesnít love AND have an affair with another married man is just not really smart decision making. Iím so sorry youíre lonely. I wish I could give you some advice that would fix that. Big hugs, my friend.

Me 50, H52
Divorce from XH final 12/17/2014
Marriage #2 12/31/2019
5 adult (step)daughters (3 from XH's first marriage, 2 from current H's previous relationships)
4 grandkids (plus 2 on the way)