Wow ginger, Iíd say that says a whole lot more about your cousin than it says about you. Man that is pretty messed up that she is living her life this way and thinks thatís better than being by herself? Again really says a lot about her and not about you. Please donít at all think sheís doing better than you are because she clearly is not. I mean what would be worse having a husband that beat her and her claiming at least she has a roof over her head so sheís better off this way. Iím not at all trying to diminish your loneliness. Iím just saying thereís no way I would wanna see you trade places with your cousin - no way.

Me 56
Met 11/95 / Married 5/00
Bomb 6/20/05 / She Filed on 6/2/06 / Divorced on 10/9/06
4 who'd qualify as GF since D & dated about 25 women since D