Actually.... I just realized. It feels like three years but itís actually been two. FS is right. When it clicks, it clicks. Until then, you just keep pushing forward and let time and determination do itís thing. Eventually you get some distance and perspective and you start to envision life after divorce. Of course, unless you never plan on having another relationship, you then get to navigate the world of online dating (OLD). Now that is another adventure in Lots of highs and lows in that arena as well. Meh... I am starting to think that is just how life What doesnít kill us makes us stronger. (((HUGS)))

Me 53
H 48
B/G Twins 13
SD 21
Legal SA - January 2019
Divorce filed - June 2019
Divorce final - November 2019

Together 14 years
Married 12 years
BD1 - May 2014
BD2 - September 14, 2018