The custody issue was difficult for me

One of my children was young and , and I truthfully did not trust my xh and OW to be caretakers if needed
MY XH Lied and I did not really know who OW was or where they lived or if they lived together till the end

The process is grueling, but it sounds like you are clear headed

The Mlcer is usually selfiish and will typically either lose some rights or back down

I did everything to protect my kids and fought him to them safe and away from OW who was an addict and he also began to use they were not sane people

Judges, L can see this and probably see it every day
Thank God for one responsible parent

hang in there

married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
M ow D ow