Bttrfly, it wasn’t a matter of him deciding to have a kid with her after four months. It was a matter of him saying he’d be open to the idea of another kid when they first started dating (she wants children) and then realizing pretty quickly that no, he really wouldn't want to do that again.
I meant her, not him.
M 20+ T25+ S 15.5 (BD) BD 4/6/15 H moved out 4/24/15 D Final 12/23/16
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