the reason I have one child is because after our son was born my exh decided he didn't enjoy fatherhood as much as he'd thought he would. I wouldn't have a second with someone who felt that way. As DV said, be grateful to learn this early on. And who decides they want to have a kid with someone they've known 4 months? That's nuts. You've dodged a huge bullet here.

M 20+ T25+
S 15.5 (BD)
BD 4/6/15
H moved out 4/24/15
D Final 12/23/16

Everyone is doing the best they can, even if it's a lousy job.