I would get on the phone ASAP with that L. Don't depend on text, and don't sit around waiting for her to text back. The whole reason you filed for D was to protect yourself financially, you can't just sit in limbo indefinitely. Stress that to her. Get some resolution or get a new L.
I found my strength and texted her again. I told her that I'm in month 4 or taking care of me and 3 teens with minimal support from him. She told me she'd get me a court date when she got back to the office. He's paying CS only and I can't live on that alone.