It has been over two years since my wife and I reconned. We are doing good. We communicate and talk things out a lot better now. She calls me all the time and tells me everything, I have become more patient, before BD her calling me so much would annoy me. Now, I take my time and listen. I won't say we don't have our spats, but they don't just tear up our relationship.
I still have my tiggering moments, but they are really rare.
Sometimes, I do go down a revengeful thought process, but I have found ways to bring me back into reality.
My wife and I have some really happy and fun moments. We are working hard to raise 4 confident, responsible, and loving boys.
There's no timeframe on healing, after two years there's still a lot of work to do.
Onward and Forward
M:36 W:36 T:11 M:10 S16, S12, S9, S4 BD:06/28/17 OM confirmed 07/20/17 Recon the M 10/29/17 Working hard:2gether
Onward and forward
This process is not a sprint it's a marathon! Patience, Patience, Patience.