I queued in to this statement. Do you actually know the person you want to be?

This weekend, I am actually going to make a list:
1. Who is the person I want to become?
2. What are my standards that my next person must have?

It's coming together in bits and pieces. I didn't like the person I was before he left. Don't get me wrong there were parts of me that were great. I'm leaving those but I have all this baggage from my childhood that I've never dealt with like codependency.