S19 is aspergers and gets worse when stressed. He started back college this week and his anxiety is up. My house is small and it's louder now with D14 there everyday. We've always had big houses so this is a big adjustment. WAH is never home so D14 is going to move back in with me. S19 was okay with this but with the added stress he's upset. He doesn't want to move.....again but he has to. D14 is my kid too and her current situation isn't okay with me (or her).

Until WAH brings his R out into the open he will stay gone. He was gone when I picked D14 up, home when I dropped her off. She forgot her watch so I took it back. He was gone and it was 10:30 pm.