Originally Posted by OwnIt
What I have learned is that when I show mine how to hurt me, he does it again and again. I would try not to let him know the things that really eat away at you. When you don't react as he hopes, the fun of doing them will cease and he will move on to something else.

Originally Posted by kml

You got it all out, thatís good, now stop. No need to have any further discussions with him about the relationship. Itís all business from here on out. Heíll try to suck you into arguments - be like a smooth stone, no edges he can grab. Donít let him push buttons. The opposite of love isnít anger, itís indifference. Be indifferent.

Grey Rock is the name of the game now. Get the legal separation done, keep building a new life for me and S1, and file for divorce in five months.


June 2019 | Runaway husband
May 2020 | Legal separation
Xmas 2020 | Divorce hearing