Just in case you have any doubts - when I discovered cold proof of my ex-husband’s affair on his laptop, he STILL tried to tell me he hadn’t cheated on me. (Yes, he had, and later he admitted it, she had gone with him to Hawaii on a business trip and much more....). It’s just a cowardly thing, not being able to admit to an affair when you’re caught.

You got it all out, that’s good, now stop. No need to have any further discussions with him about the relationship. It’s all business from here on out. He’ll try to suck you into arguments - be like a smooth stone, no edges he can grab. Don’t let him push buttons. The opposite of love isn’t anger, it’s indifference. Be indifferent.