Just in case you have any doubts - when I discovered cold proof of my ex-husbandís affair on his laptop, he STILL tried to tell me he hadnít cheated on me. (Yes, he had, and later he admitted it, she had gone with him to Hawaii on a business trip and much more....). Itís just a cowardly thing, not being able to admit to an affair when youíre caught.

You got it all out, thatís good, now stop. No need to have any further discussions with him about the relationship. Itís all business from here on out. Heíll try to suck you into arguments - be like a smooth stone, no edges he can grab. Donít let him push buttons. The opposite of love isnít anger, itís indifference. Be indifferent.

Last edited by kml; 01/05/20 07:32 PM.