I agree she will probably end up moving in with him. She is looking for another job but I doubt she will follow through with it. She is only looking for another job to get out of her current situation and this would allow her to be with him. All of this takes time so it is important for me to detach and not speculate.
I’ve realized there is no figuring her out. The only thing that is certain is that she doesn’t want to be with me. I guess we will know for sure once his divorce is final but that could take months to happen.
I truly think my only chance of reconciling and healing is to let her go. Divorce is hard but it may be the best option for me to heal and grow.