I know but its because she is so selfish she blames me for telling the OM's wife about the messages. The OM's wife has shared them with people in the community and now its been the talk of the town.
She text me today that a student mentioned it to our son at school. She said our son just told the kid it was a rumor. My wife hasn't admitted it to our son and I haven't told him either, although he suspects it.
I just feel really bad for my son but my wife will blame me for this getting out.
I'm thinking fairly hard that one of my boundaries will be if she continues to be in contact with him everyday then I may have to file and try to move forward and heal.