Had a chase text from W this morning...

"So can you sort out the window? I need you to. Please let me know. Thanks."

The 'I need you to.' was interesting. I interpreted that as someone in trouble, rather than just ordering me about. Guess when we were together she'd just assume I'd do all of this without her input. Now I'm no longer in the house, it's falling to her to do more ringing up, which I know she hates.

I replied "Yes. I've spoken to them...[1 sentence update]." Then I validated about her feeling overwhelmed, and left it at that.


Me - 36, W - 32
No kids
T - 8 yr, M - 3 yr
Discovery - 14 May 2019
S - 25 May 2019 & D bomb - 29 July 2019
D & House sale final - Feb 2020